Sunday, May 23, 2010

Relationships are exchanges of energy

I am hurt that someone I consider a good friend rarely phones me. I do all the phoning. In fact it is a common thread in my friendships. Maybe people see me as self-contained, and that I don't need to hear from them. It's not true - we all want to be loved.

Relationships are exchanges of energy. If one person is more passionate and committed than the other, it is an imbalance of energy. You have two choices: discuss it with the person and try to resolve it, or let them go. Energy exchange must be equal to be genuine love.

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