The struggle to let go of judging people

I've just watched Margaret McElroy's video blog on criticism: www.margaretmcelroy.com.
This is an area I have struggled with all my life. I find myself constantly judging people's appearances, actions and choices. It causes me a lot of emotional pain. 'Why can't I stop doing it?'

I've said before that the answer to judging is to think, 'I wouldn't have chosen that top'..or 'I would give way to that car...' Believe me, I have a long long way to go, but if awareness is half the battle, I am making progress. Is anyone else struggling with this issue?

Judgment is a huge problem for many people

I struggle on a daily basis not to judge people. As a life coach I legitimately give advice to people who ask for it, but unfortunately I have no off switch. Every day I see people who would 'benefit from my input'! I feel so frustrated observing people stuck in dysfunctional situations for years on end. Why don't they move on???

Maitreya's latest blog highlights what a huge problem judgment is on Earth. We all do it. Maitreya says we can't possibly know the situations we judge - only God does and karma is unique to each person. We must mind our own business; easier said than done.

My battle to refrain from judgment is monumental. While it stands between me and major spiritual growth it is also a catalyst for that growth. I will keep you informed on my progress, and I welcome comments from readers who are also struggling with this issue.